One of the most critical steps in any love relationship is a wedding proposal. It signifies that you no longer wish to spend your life apart from your loved one. If you plan the wedding proposal properly, it will bring out genuine and heartfelt emotions.  On the flip side, some mistakes can make the entire wedding proposal a nightmare. Read on and find out what you should avoid when proposing to the love of your life.

1.             Hiding the Proposal Ring in Food or Drinks

Hiding the wedding engagement ring in your loved one’s favorite snack or drink is a creative option. But, it is a risky one. If your lover fails to see it, they can chip their tooth, choke, or swallow it.

In such a case, you will end up in a hospital, which can be quite unromantic. So if you have to use food or drinks when proposing, ensure the ring is visible.

2.             Bad Timing

A wedding proposal is special. Subsequently, we believe that it deserves it’s own day.  Don’t combine a marriage proposal with your partner’s birthday, your anniversary, or a holiday.  It may come off like you’re just trying to “kill two birds with one stone.”

Rather, pick the perfect day that will be known as simply, “the day you got engaged” for the rest of your lives.

3.             Sharing the News with Too Many People

A perfect surprise wedding proposal is ideal.  But when people know something juicy, it can be hard to keep a secret.  Picture this…you tell your friend you are proposing, and he tells a friend, and somehow it gets back to your cousin, then her friend, then her!  What a nightmare!!

Another risk of telling too many people about your plans is that your partner may feel strange when they find out that everyone knew about the proposal before it happened. Consider hiring us for our custom proposal planning services if you need assistance from someone you can trust.  This way, when you share the proposal news with your relatives and friends after being engaged, they will all be surprised.

4.             Failing to Practice Your Speech in Advance

We never, ever recommend memorizing your speech.  Chances are, you are going to get so nervous during your big moment that you will forget half of it anyway.  But we do recommend that you practice what you will say.  That way, you have an idea of the major points you want to convey.

But don’t worry.  Even if you botch the whole thing, just speak from your heart and let your partner know why you want to spend the rest of your life with them.  They will be happy.

5.             Being Too Nervous

A wedding proposal evokes intense emotions. As a result, you are likely to be nervous. Nonetheless, it would be best if you did not let your nerves take control. Instead, try to remain calm and settled. Being too nervous can result in serious mistakes such as forgetting the ring.

Additionally, if you are too nervous, you may start behaving suspiciously, prompting your partner to start suspecting that something is up. In worse cases, you may forget your speech or open the thin engagement ring box upside down.

6.             Making the Proposal Too Public

You have probably come across the big-screen proposals such as at concerts or in a sports stadium. Unless your partner loves attention, this may not be an ideal idea. If your partner is an introvert, they will be traumatized by such a setup.

Moreover, it is good to pop the question when your partner is in their comfort zone to perpetuate the moment. It is also important to keep in mind what your lover likes and customize it.

7.             Failing to Personalize the Proposal

Whether you’re the romantic type or not, it’s necessary to work on your wedding proposal plans. Asking the love of your life to marry you as you watch a football game on TV may not make a memorable proposal.

A superb wedding proposal is not just made by going down on your knee. Where you propose and how you propose is just as important. Depending on your partner’s likes and budget, make the proposal ideal by planning something that is not ordinary.

Be careful not to get caught up in clichés and fail to consider what your loved one may prefer. Some people love the ocean, and a proposal on a yacht in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean will be perfect. While the same will be traumatizing for someone who has aquaphobia.

Contact the Heart Bandits to Plan Your Wedding Proposal

It is not easy to plan a wedding proposal. The entire planning can be extremely stressful, especially if you have a busy work schedule.  However, it is imperative to make the wedding proposal special and avoid typical mistakes.

The Heart Bandits can assist you in planning an ideal wedding proposal. We will work with you to develop a custom marriage proposal plan that will fit your schedule and plans. More importantly, we can help with personalized marriage proposal ideas that will make your lover feel special and lucky to be in your life.

To find out more about our services, schedule a free consultation today.