Big Sur Proposal Ideas & Packages

1. McWay Falls

This location not only offers a beautiful waterfall, which is rare in California, but also has a gorgeous cove.  If proposing next to a stunning 80-foot waterfall sounds like a good idea, we agree. This phenomenally beautiful waterfall empties directly into the ocean, one of only a few on the west coast that does. Consider visiting at sunset when the sun’s ray’s hit the water, turning it into a fountain of liquid gold.  Check out a Google street view from the trail on top of the bridge HERE.  You really cannot go wrong with this location especially with the perfectly placed lookout locations.

2. Bixby Creek Bridge 

You’ve seen this bridge, even if you’re not aware that you have. That’s because it is one of the most photographed places in all of California and has been featured in countless commercials, movies and popular TV shows.  If you’re an HBO fan, then it’s the famous bridge that appears in the hit show “Big Little Lies”. The dramatic view afforded by this 714 foot long bridge is unbeatable, with a perfect vista of the Pacific Ocean beneath, and would be a perfect place to propose.  This bridge opened in 1932 so it definitely has a lot of history.   It brings a lot of the old historic charm of California that you really can’t find anywhere else.

The vista point may get a little crowded on weekends so be sure to time it right so that you avoid crowds for your engagement.  A good proposal idea would be to have a musician waiting here for you.  How shocked would your partner be when you arrive at this gorgeous location with historic bridge and having your song sung?

3. Pfeiffer Beach

If an otherworldly experience is what you’re after with your proposal, consider popping the question at Pfeiffer Beach. This tiny beach is the jewel of California and one of the most unique that the gold coast has to offer, with its purple sand and famous rock arch.

This rock arch is officially known as the Keyhole Arch at Pfeiffer Beach.  Catch it at just the right time of year and you can even see the sunset rays coming directly through it.

The beach itself is gorgeous and if you approach the northern end of it, there is actually purple sand that is beautiful and unique to this area.

4. Sierra Mar 

This is actually a restaurant which you can see HERE.  It is located at Post Ranch Inn and this iconic restaurant has one of the most fabulous views in all of Big Sur. It has floor-to-ceiling glass windows that offer sweeping vistas of the Pacific ocean. Delicious food, fantastic wine pairings, and a romantic atmosphere make this the perfect location to propose in Big Sur.

An option would be to try to work with the staff of the restaurant to get the most romantic table in the place.  Or maybe come in to celebrate after getting engaged earlier in the day?

5. Soberanes Point

This is a favorite spot of The Heart Bandits!  The location comes seemingly out of nowhere.  It is a striking location where the mountains roll down and cause a drastic border between land and sea.  There are many points on the trailhead that offer beautiful rocky views and also perfect for proposals.  Some good options would be to have one of our Cliffside Picnic proposals or Photo Tour packages here.

6. Lover's Point

This is one of the most iconic and romantic spots in the Monterey/Big Sur area. With its breathtaking views of the Pacific Ocean, it offers the perfect backdrop for a proposal, especially at sunset.  It is a quiet place for an intimate proposal and perfect for couples who love the ocean.

7. 17-Mile Drive

This scenic drive along the coast offers several picturesque spots to pop the question. One of the best locations is Cypress Point Lookout, where you can enjoy dramatic views of the ocean and coastline.  It's best for couples who appreciate scenic drives and want to enjoy some privacy.

8. Monterey Bay Aquarium

For an underwater-themed proposal, the Monterey Bay Aquarium offers a magical setting. You could propose in front of the stunning kelp forest or the colorful sea creatures.  It's great for couples who love marine life or want a unique experience.

9. Pacific Grove Butterfly Sanctuary

This place is special because it is a serene and magical place that is home to thousands of monarch butterflies, making it feel like you’re in a fairy tale. The butterflies and the quiet natural surroundings create an intimate and peaceful atmosphere.  It's perfec tfor those nature lovers seeking a whimsical, natural setting.

10. Point Lobos State Natural Reserve

This spot is known for its dramatic cliffs, clear blue waters, and natural beauty, this reserve is perfect for couples who love hiking or exploring nature. You could propose at one of the many scenic vistas.

11. Monterey State Historic Park

For history buffs, this park offers the charm of old Monterey with historic buildings, gardens, and lovely walkways. The serene atmosphere makes it a beautiful backdrop for a classic proposal.  It's perfect for couples who appreciate old architecture.

12. Sunset at Del Monte Beach

This beach has a quieter, more intimate feel compared to others in the area. The sunset views are simply stunning, and the beach is less crowded, offering a peaceful proposal experience.

13. Carmel Beach

Carmel Beach is a stunning stretch of white sand with views of the Pacific Ocean and the iconic Cypress trees. The sunsets here are nothing short of breathtaking, making it a top choice for a romantic proposal. Couples who love the beach and want a scenic, this natural setting is perfect for their proposal. Sunset is especially beautiful here.

14. The Fairy Tale Cottages

Carmel is known for its whimsical, storybook-like cottages. These fairy-tale homes, with their unique architecture and beautiful gardens, are perfect for an intimate proposal. You could propose in front of one of these charming cottages or even book a stay at one to make the moment even more special.

15. Point Lobos State Natural Reserve

Just a short drive from Carmel, this stunning natural reserve offers dramatic cliffs, crystal-clear waters, and coastal trails. There are plenty of quiet, secluded spots to propose with amazing views of the ocean and wildlife. It’s a great spot for a nature lover’s proposal.  It's also great for adventurous couples who love hiking or exploring nature, with the added bonus of stunning vistas.

16. Carmel Mission Basilica

This historic Spanish mission is one of the most beautiful and peaceful places in Carmel. The gardens surrounding the mission are serene and perfect for a proposal. The rich history and architecture add a romantic and timeless vibe to the moment.  It's best for couples who appreciate history, beautiful architecture, and peaceful gardens.

17. The Mission Ranch

Owned by Clint Eastwood, this historic ranch has been beautifully restored and is now a charming restaurant and inn. The grounds are beautifully landscaped, and you can enjoy a romantic proposal with a view of the Pacific Ocean in the background.  It's great for a rustic yet elegant proposal with a touch of history.

18. Carmel River State Beach

Known for its quieter and more relaxed vibe compared to Carmel Beach, Carmel River State Beach offers a peaceful spot for a proposal. It's often less crowded, giving you more privacy and a serene atmosphere with views of the river and ocean.
Best for: Couples who prefer a more secluded beach proposal in a tranquil setting.

19. The Cypress Inn

If you're looking for a cozy and romantic place to propose, the Cypress Inn, co-owned by Doris Day, is the perfect place. Its charming ambiance, luxurious atmosphere, and pet-friendly policy make it a great choice for an intimate proposal, perhaps in one of the cozy rooms or the beautiful garden.  It's a romantic, upscale setting with a personal touch. You can also arrange a special proposal dinner here.